If I didn't do things because my family might become ashamed of me. I would be stuck in a suit and tie in a church listening to some person who is no better than I try and tell me I need to work on being a better person.

So I live my life as I want, doing as I want, and not including my family in it. Am I ashamed of myself, NO. Then why don't I include my family? Because they are narrow minded and judgmental, and I don't particularly want that coming up every time I go see them.

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