Why am I so sensitive about this?

[star_catcher77]

I try. In most scenarios, whether in my marriage or not, I tend to analyze with reasoning out both sides of the story and where I might be wrong. When I stick up for myself, I've gotten hurt. Not just with my husband. I know how to stand on my own two feet, I'm not a doormat. It's just hard to hurt people you love, and by continuing to have heart to hearts with him the more it hurts him. Not good enough. Not good enough. Not good enough. So when do you just accept it? (I'm stubborn, I don't easily)

Your empathy, from all of you, is very comforting.

As I said Mishka, it is a very hard choice for you, and that's natural. Is he so important that you will sacrifice your peace of mind for him? The flip side is, are you going do something to help yourself? Doing something to prevent long-term damage to yourself is not selfish. But, no one here can make a decision about that. Why are you so sensitive? because it hurts....it's something important. You're not abnormal to hurt. I think it's safe to say that anyone here would be glad to lend you an ear if you ever need to talk.

Thinking good things about you,
~star

[Guest 91108]

Bows out of the thread.
I feel i am too involved and too opinionated to be of much help.