Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
What are your (the two of you together and individually) positions on extramarital relationships?

I know this is a sticky subject for many... but as a child of the sixties, I grew up in the 'free love' era and never saw anything wrong with it.

And for someone who loves a vanilla spouse, I see it as an extremely natural avenue for happiness without threatening the otherwise happy marriage.
Actually doing something like that has a chance of drawing a non interested partner into the mix, this is considering they agree to the first part. (One of those Ok I took this step I might try another things)