LadyAmanda
i was abused from very young childhood until the end of my marriage, after which i sought proffessional help and have been for the last 7 years alone. During our interview, my Master held me at a very open and vulnerable spot seeming eternity, then enveloped me in his arms and held me there safe. It was the most precious and beautiful feeling in the world i had ever felt. He did not betray my trust, he did not harm me, but only suceeded in reaffirming more trust, and strengthen my desire to commit and make him happy.
During one of our discussions, i said to him "soon all my defenses will be gone and i will be vulnerable!" He replied back "defenses? you need none against me, it is I who will be defending you, and look at being vulnerable as an exchange of trust between us"