My favorite reference is to "ridiculous games."

I can think of many ridiculous sexual games, such as, spending time in the john wanking off to hot women, dressed in leather wielding whips.

Oh yeah. Now that is ridiculous!

We go out and make it happen!

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And as for the bit about using power of the mind?
Well, it is my guess that for the majority of people here, the mind is the more powerful tool than the pain of the body. Without the trust, the reverance and existance of the power exchange, most of us would not even get to experience the physical parameters of BDSM.

God! I love this lifestyle!