For me it started around 12 - 14 I guess. We had one of those long dog chains. I used to wrap myself up in it. It just felt right to wrap my hands or feet up in that chain.

Years later, I took my 16 year old girlfriend (I was 17 at the time) to the Spring Semi-formal. I remember I had a tie on. We left the dance early and headed back to her place where we knew her parents were out.

At this moment in time we were both virgins. As we made love, I removed the tie and tied her hands togather above her head to the frame of the bed. I slipped into her a few minutes later.

Afterword she easily slipped out of the bonds. A few days later she said "tie me up again" and we were off to the races.

One night I threatened to beat her if she didn't behave. "Could be fun." she said.

To this day I wonder what ever happened to her. I still dream of her sometimes.