Well, I've always been such a self-confident, forceful, take-charge kind of gal....but, remembering back to childhood, my friends and I would tie each other up, and I should have known, when I was mature enough to start masturbating, those were the moments I would fantasize about....it confused me, because I always thought of myself as Dominant.....but those Sub moments would just rocket me into orbit! Now, years later, (and being married 7 years!) I finally have the courage to admit my truest desires! I only told my Hubby about my fantasies @ 4 months ago, and WOW! He wants to be a Dom, and "the game is afoot!"