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Ya know? I was just going to let this all go and not say a thing, but this post made me a little cranky. So, allow me to make a polite retort.

willem, you're a liar and an ignorant one to boot, and here's why:

once again to all of you.

If you like to have me banned, fine with me.

Coming from one of the people that could have banned you, had I seen fit, I chose not to, because you truly have not yet shown yourself to be of the calibre of person that deserves to be banned. Ridiculed and mocked, yes, but not banned.

I might be wrong, but i assume that this is the first time that you boys and girls had a discussion on this level.

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I'm betting that we have had quite a few discussions on a multitude of levels. As someone who claims to have "read the posts in this forum," I would have thought you might have seen those discussions. Maybe you could have picked something out that you felt positively about and posted courteous replies to those topics, but instead you've decided to be abusive and cover it up with a fake sugar-coating of nearly-polite self-righteousness.

Well, hey, if that works for you, then that's peachy, but I'm here to tell you right now that it won't fly around here. If you continue to be abusive and talk to people as if we're all a bunch of kids, then none of us are going to consider you or your posts worth our time to read, and eventually you will step over the line and you will be tossed out of here on your bum. If that's what you want, just say so and one of us will get about doing it. Otherwise, I'll tell you like I've told you once before already: You be polite and follow the rules around here or you can leave. It matters not to me. One is just as fine a choice as the other as far as I am concerned.

By the way, you're a lot younger than a good many of our members here, so calling us "boys and girls" is probably not the way to go about winning yourelf any friends either.

Not interested in what i said?
Please explain why there are so much replies!
I love it that you are so furious, that you show your emotions.
Because that's what life is all about, emotions. So cry it out, let yourself go!

You've got things wrong, willem. The people that have replied to you are not angry (or furious, as you say). They are mocking you and showing contempt for your obvious ignorance. You don't know any of these people and yet you insist on coming here and belittling them by calling them boys and girls and telling them that what they do is just a bunch of games. You say that "Hurting someone is a sign of weakness," but there are literally hundreds of people on this site that will tell you that they want to be hurt. They crave it. They love it. They feel it an essential need in their lives. Who are you to tell them that they are weak for knowing quite good and well what they want?

I don't have the intention to insult you, only to wake you up.

U are all so soft, do u think it is about your ridiculous games u play.

Your intelligence is of a very low level.

I don't know, willem, those sound an awful lot like insults to me. At the very least, those sentences wern't very polite.

In your replies, you try to prove that you or your lifestyle mean something. But of course for all people on this earth life is worth living, and we should respect all human beings around us.

so reply and show your true feelings!

You're right. My lifestyle does mean something to me and to have you belittle it makes me not like you very much.

We should respect each other, that is true. However, when you come in here and start calling us boys and girls and saying we're all soft and stupid, you are not showing us the very respect that you yourself declare we should all have for one another.

Now, if you really want to continue this little discussion, you can. Just know that these people are not going to tolerate your continued insults and your continues self-righteousness. And when it ceases to be amusing anymore, we will show you to the door.

Consider those my true feelings.