Good luck to you both. I followed this thread closely since the day I became aware of it, actually opened it because I confused it with random babblings, mostly because I empathised with the strong emotions involved when a close marriage goes through problems.

I hope you have both found a path to help you through this time and that it leads to where you want to be. I doubt I will be the last to add my best wishes to you both as you have been very brave to reveal your situation here on the site and I have been proud of the way this little community of ours reacted.

Good luck to you both.