Hi Tehya,

I assume you are talking about wearing a chastity belt and not something like one of the 'ideas' put forward by my owner which are illustrated earlier in this thread. My owner is VERY possessive and my chastity is something that rates as extremely important in his eyes. I have worn a chastity belt on and off for about three years now - thankfully not on all the time!! - and I am fairly used to it now, including how to be VERY careful in public so as not to give away just what lies inder my skirt - I could easily write book called "100 Things NOT To Do When Wearing A Chastity Belt".............

If I can give advice, I would recommend that, if you are buying a CB, you buy the very best you can afford. The net has a whole gamut of belts available from various suppliers (Google or Yahoo search will help find them) but you should always get one where the manufacturer needs a comprehensive list of your measurements so that you actually get a belt that fits. Unfortunately I live in UK and I see you're in the States, so I can't help much about USA suppliers, but GO FOR THE BEST specially if you intend to wear it for long periods.

You asked about wearing plugs; my belt has removable plugs back and front and the idea of wearing them all the time might seem exciting but I think you'd get pretty sore after a while (and I am speaking from experience..........) Also, as you point out, there is the matter of going to the loo and general hygene. What my owner did (still does) is tie my hands out of the way - to my collar or high up my back - when the belt comes off. And it only comes off when it is convenient for him............... Certain things he won't do and so, if I have to wipe myself or whatever, I get a hand freed but I'm observed to make sure that I don't get any pleasure from my 'moment of access', so as to speak.

If you buy a decent steel belt you can (rather messily) pee with it on, but my belt has a lockable plate over the front grill so it is NOT advisable and I'd be in trouble if I did do so. But mainly the whole thing is common sense. Unfortunately real life catches up on the basic theory of wearing a CB and it's a matter of arranging things so you don't get any chance to 'misbehave' when it is off.

If you have any other questions, please ask. As I say, I am used to wearing mine and, like you, I see it as an important aspect of my submission to my owner. Best of luck !

Love Jane.