Quote Originally Posted by briansmine View Post
Ah, but is it necessary to be "great" at all times to be a 24/7 dominant? Is anyone great at all times, or is Wonder Woman really a comic book character and the rest of us mere mortals?
Allowing yourself to show weakness I'd say is an important quality in a Dom. Nobody is a superhero and anybody who feels they need to be just haven't got "it".

I don't like the term "natural", because it's a nonsense term. It's just value judgement and has nothing to do with which qualities are inborn, but rather, which qualities the speaker believes the majority aprove of/are normal.

I think feeling comfortable about having a 24/7 slave needs a very special kind of person. I think this is learned, but at a very young age. There's no dominance or alpha-male gene identified and I wouldn't hold my breath for science to find it ever. I think we've got very little control over it and once we've reached puberty it's pretty set in stone and we couldn't come over to the Master side, no matter how hard we tried.

If we belong to the group who enjoy having a slave around we can learn to be better Masters. That's an ever on-going process.

My two cents.