Quote Originally Posted by briansmine View Post
TomofSweden - Do I feel comfortable with a 24/7 slave? Not yet, but I want to be very much or I wouldn't be bouncing ideas around. Does brian feel comfortable? Not yet, but he badly wants to be. I know he feels very vulnerable and very alone, which makes me sad. One thing that occurred to me that might help is defining what would be different and what would be the same. We already have many things that he has no knowledge or control over(money being the biggest). What more would be added? What's missing now?
I mean off-course, after the all the annoying inhibitions have been shed. That's always the first step in finding ones own sexuality. I'd say you two have plenty of exploring to do before you find yourselves. I personally am 100% dom. I know because I tried pretty much everything. But I still like playing around and challenging myself so now and again I'm submissive for fun. But it isn't really my thing and I couldn't do it for long.

Nothing makes me calmer and more at peace than having a slave who obeys my comands. I love hearing her screams when I whip or torture her. Also very calming. This is what did it for me.