Great link, I know a lot of people want advice on this and it's hard to judge for yourself if you're a newbie 8easy to run into overenthusastic guys who totally confuse fantasy and real scenarios) It's plain though, he's opposed to the very idea of using tit bondage as a means of savagely pushing the sub over the edge (which is part of the idea of bdsm to most of us). The way he refers to Joy of Sex is sort of telling, as Mr Comfort writes about light bondage only, he simply doesn't care about any idea of really overpowering and hot bondage, and almost sees bondage as just a subsidiary thing to some massage techniques.