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    thanks Red Eva

    this is something that surprises me too. Judging by the stories, there are some pretty extreme people - at least fantasywise - hanging around here. Judging by some of the posts here, you'd think that bdsm is a pair of handcuffs, missionary position, and a nice long hot shower afterwards to make sure everything is squeaky clean.

    I find many of the stories pretty gross. I am not at all into violence, n/c, permanent damage, extreme pain, etc., etc. But I thought that was the whole reason for a place such as this here library; to satisfy the needs of those for whom the playboy channel does next to nothing. So I don't read those stories, or I skip over parts I don't like and leave those into that alone. To each his/her own.

    I am very much into oral sex (forced, of course) - and, like Napoleon, I don't want my woman to smell or taste like a bar of soap. The above is the next logical (long) step.
    There is a difference between fantasy and reality, though. Would I take the step in RT? Prob not. That doesn't stop fantasy, though. And to those who do take the step, hats off.

    And to those who tolerate without judging, hats off too.

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    Tolerance

    Quote Originally Posted by nudude
    this is something that surprises me too. Judging by the stories, there are some pretty extreme people - at least fantasy-wise - hanging around here. I find many of the stories pretty gross. But I thought that was the whole reason for a place such as this here library; to satisfy the needs of those for whom the playboy channel does next to nothing. To each his/her own.There is a difference between fantasy and reality, though. Would I take the step in RT? Prob not. That doesn't stop fantasy, though. And to those who do take the step, hats off.And to those who tolerate without judging, hats off too.
    I think that comments on activities that are purely fantasy are not very beneficial. BUT, if one is going to take this from fantasy to reality, THEN, some common sense advice really does help.
    Like nudude, I personally am not into many of the things that others might be (scat, blood, breath-play, etc..) but I do believe that if individuals are going to try and practice these things in real life with a real life partner, they need to know all the risks involved with these activities.
    This on-line forum is a great place for all to read and discuss ALL types of activities. Mainly for two reasons. One- there is a wide variety of persons posting here, from all over the world plus all levels of experience and interests. Two- some RL groups don't always assist persons with getting information on kinks they personally might not be in to. I found this true with a group I had participated in for a few years. I suggested at a meeting once that we have an informational meeting about the safety issues on doing urine and scat play. Right away, the "Ewwwwws" came out and "we don't do that here". I said, I understand that, but what about someone wanting to try that. Isn't it better to have someone educated in this BEFORE they try it then tell them after-wards they made a bunch of mistakes. But it was kind of a lost battle. I learned that human nature traits (i.e we tend to hang with those who agree with us) is strong in the lifestyle too.
    So I think that any and all comments on any BDSM practice is worthwhile, as long as it is respectful to the person asking it.

    Thanks for your patience with me in this long response.

    SirW

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    Unhappy

    well i always thought that forums are an open discussion so how come onlye the ones who agree with the topic are allowed to post their opinion. so if i can't say that the idea makes me sick it stops being an open discussion somehow....
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    it shouldn't have to be your cup of pee..

    for you to post But simply posting "I'm gonna puke" is, shall we say, not very constructive. Besides, if your gonna do that, then puke on lordhelm. He'd like it!

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    didn't say i was gonna puke i said it makes me feel sick, and lord helm lives too far away and i don't like puking, makes me feel ill somehow when i have to do that. i wonder why

    anyways bedtime now, night
    myri {SN} owned by SirNeedles
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    Quote Originally Posted by myri_SN
    well i always thought that forums are an open discussion so how come onlye the ones who agree with the topic are allowed to post their opinion. so if i can't say that the idea makes me sick it stops being an open discussion somehow....
    There isn't a rule saying you can't. I agree with you, you should and can say that. You just can't insult another member by doing so (I don't think that just saying I think eating human feces is gross is an insult to anyone into that sort of thing).

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    Some people like what some people like. And Urine actually isn't real bad for you, and can actually help cure larengitis (sp?), or a lost voice. Yes there are some "germs" but nothing that could really get you sick. It's mostly vitamens and minerals that we have too much of in our bodies, so it has some good parts to it... Not saying I would drink it, but if that's what you're into, best of luck!

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    Ykiokijnmk

    Sounds like time to revive the super-acronym that used to resolve such conflicts on APB: YKIOKIJNMK.

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    Brown gagged

    Have you ever read the story: A Girl brown gagged?

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