My husband and I just started a few months back, also, after 6 years of marraige. Let me tell you, it's been extremely difficult and rocky! Ultimately, though, we are finding ourselves in the position that Alaric just mentioned. Making it more of a full time thing, has cut back on the confusion, hurt, anger, that mistakes were causing us. After all, it IS NOT easy reconciling the Boss at work/ Mother/ Head of House person with being a sub! Concedeing more control to Him, AT ALL TIMES, has definitely shut down all the rough spots we were having.

Being the sub, I can advise you to keep at your wife. Each time you play, push her just a tad further. Mentally is how , ultimately, you will need to dominate her. And if you want to get serious, try incorporating your dominance outside the bedroom as well. It will keep her from fighting you so much in the bedroom when it is time to play.

Good luck! Have fun!