Oh my....this is one of those topics I love to explore but too chicken to try. Master and I have played rape scenes before. I had lots of fun... But I think there is an element missing from this scene that an arranged, consentual scene might create. Real fear.....Ours was I knew when, where, what, why..etc..

I do think a real scene can be had with someone you know..hell most rapes ARE date rapes (meaning you know your attacher). I do beleive with the element of surprise, circumstances, and situations that the fear, struggle, and fight can be authentic. It just depends upon the two "playing/scening".

If, however, Master were to have someone else do the "raping", I do beleive I would rather meet the person first...then in some future time maybe the scene. It would mean a lot of faith in Master that he would stop the scene if things were to go to far..and two, trust in a stranger. Not something, that likely from me...

Lots of planning and communication I think. Lots and lots of planning....