Quote Originally Posted by myri_SN
i got two engineering degrees, a BEng and an MSc hence my job will be mostly management, got another interview tomorrow , but that doesn't mean that i am someone else when i leave master's house. sounds weird to me to split vanilla and lifestyle. you either are sub or you are not, not part-time i think.
If you can comfortably handle being both a strong successful person and a slave, you're lucky (or well adjusted). Many subs (particularly women) have trouble with it and need to keep the two identities in separate compartments. My own SO has been struggling with the dilemma for years and still needs to have clearly defined times when the collar goes on and comes off.

It's not (she explains) that her sub side isn't always there, but she needs to know when she is free to be everything else that she is.