Well, from a newbie's point of view, until you find a Dom and you want to be prepared, the subbie task forum is a great place to start. Barton is so smart. Try his first taks. I have learned many things about myself and what is involved with being a submissive. Slave is another term of which you may want to get a grasp of. But learning discipline and endurance is one that you are going to need. Much endurance is needed. Such as standing in a corner in one position for set amount of time, or kneeling is another self inflicting training place to start, when it feels like 10 minutes only to find it has only been 3 minutes. I had no idea what standing straight up with my hands behind my neck that could be so hard. Try to fix dinner with anal plug in, or shower with icy cold water. There is plenty of preparing yourself that you can do that is great for training, and when you find a Dom/me you will be all that more ready to accept the role as a submissive. Please come on over and join the subbie task forum. It is easy to figure out and all the Taskmaster are great, understanding, and of course TG is the Brain. I am more prepared than I was 2 months ago.

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