It was an extraordinarily insensitive thing to say to someone who was in a lot of pain from an 11 inch long 2 inch wide rubber dildo (no balls attached, or it wouldn't have gone up there to begin with!) poking her navel outwards. i mean, I'm into pain and humiliation, but that wasn't what I had in mind!
Accidents DO happen, that is definately proof why we need serious open minded medical professionals. Because, when they do, it can be embarrassing and it would help to find an understanding medical professional to help rather than someone that is A) laughing at you or B) giving you a moral lecture about what you were doing. Though, a sense of humor and some good advice on an entirely different level in an entirely different way may have helped. But, no, you DON'T need to be laughed at or lectured (especially at the time of the problem when you already feel bad enough about things). It still amazes me that isn't part of the training when dealing with patients (of all kinds). A little tolerance and courtesy for a person that just screwed up CAN go a long way and it would be nice to be able to know which persons you can rely on for such things and which persons you can't.