hi, my first entrance to bdsm was from reading stories in forum magazine, i then started reading stories to my girlfriend who told me the idea of me dominating her was a hell of a turn on so we bought some bondage tape from a shop and i tied her to the bed with it on several occasions, the first time i just made love to her while she was tied up, the second time i teased her mercilesly with ice cubes and bit her nipples. the third time was the best as i not only blindfolded her but i also used my fingers, a coke bottle and some ice to make her cum time and time again, i think we stopped after she had 25 orgasms and the sheet beneath her was saturated with her cum. she was so tender afterwards she could hardly walk the next day. we did discuss many things we would like to try with me being dominant and her being sub, including me letting other guys use her for sex while she was tied up (her idea) but unfortunately she left me shortly afterwards saying she couldnt cope with a long distance relationship anymore (we were only 160 miles apart).