Favorite aspect of BDSM

[himind]

I think Domination/obedience is the best part of the whole BDSM scene.To me, the idea of having someone at my total command or to submit to someone in equal measure is the most erotic experience possible. Bondage comes second, and well,there's a whole lot of room for the other!

[Master_chris]

I will have to go with Domination/Obedience, I do enjoy the submissive side of it to.

[TheDarkOne]

I'll go with the Domination/Obedience one too. Just like himind said, the idea of having someone to command at my mercy, to use as I wish is an idea/fantasy that overshadows everything else. Thus the idea of bondage also comes second since it's almost the same thing . After that, the other stuff follows...

[Jones, Nikka]

I think my reputation as a painslut would go out the window if I voted for anything else than pain, even though I really enjoy the idea of obeying and submitting, and of course the bondage that is nescessary for a good torture scene.

[MasterRJ]

Truelly I enjoy humiliation. My fantasies rarely enjoy anything else. But as I've said before, I love destroying innocence.

"But mister teacher...I don't wanna show the class my underpants...what if the boys see them?"

I'm twisted :P

[lilli]

I have to say that personally it is Dominance/obedience with a little humiliation mixed in, but thats not saying that I do not enjoy the others too, as they say (although not sure who 'they' are! ) variety is the spice of life

[slavelucy]

(although not sure who 'they' are! )

LOL! Yeah, who are 'they' that come out with such profound pieces of wisdom?!

Fave aspect of BDSM...*thinks long and hard*...hmm, probably humiliation, even tho i find it by far the hardest..closely followed by submission and pain. Having said that, i couldn't be humiliated if i didn't sumbit, so many of them are fairly intrinsically linked...one delicious package, you might say. (or, indeed they might say).

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[caligatia]

I'm torn -- while jaeangel's post made me want to go hug my dom and thank him for being so wonderful, I must admit I'm also addicted to the pain -- enough so that I have to have at least a little discomfort during vanilla sex in order to get off. Hmmmm.