Quote Originally Posted by tehya
Will there ever come a day when we disagree??? LOL...
LOL...surely not tehya, especially not on your birthday!

(i kept meaning to respond to this post but never got round to it for some reason).

You're so very right about communication in this area...one of the things that concerned me slightly in LostOne's thread was a lack of clarity in terms of expectations on her (regarding begging, not begging etc etc)...not a major problem on the surface, but IMO (not humble! ) controlling someone's orgasms without a great deal of communication as you go (and, as you rightly say, afterwards) is a recipe for disaster.

sl

P.S. i am currently deprived again, which is probably what reminded me to reply to this thread.