my Master encourages me to suggest ideas for play, dress and outings. i bring them to Him and He will either agree or dismiss as He sees fit. my role, as i see it, is not be to a passive "yes Sir, no Sir" vacuum of ideas but to delight, amuse and turn Him on without ever TFTB which is the recipe for severe punishment or, worse, to be abandoned until He wishes to speak to me again.

Just my tuppence.

s.x.