My hubby is, unfortunately quite short (I don't tell him this, it would bruise his ego) and not well endowed in the width category, which is why I get my orgasms from masturbation. He'll finger me sometimes, but not often, and...oh well, I might as well be honest with myself, when we have sex he's usually lying on his back on the bed leafing through his porn mags. I'll suck on him while he looks at the magazine girls, and when puts the mag aside and he's stiff I'll sit on him and get him off. Sex, for us, involves very little foreplay on me, and mostly all on him. Occasionally I'll give him a complete blow (suck and massage until he comes, swallow, the whiole nine yards) and he'll get me off by smacking my ass with his belt. And then we get up and go our way.
We actually don't have a whole lot of times when we can have sex. We live in an efficiency apartment with two toddlers, and getting any kind of intimate time is next to impossible. Most of the time when we do manage to get the kids to sleep at the same time there's no time for anything but a quickie.