Originally posted by Pooka

What misconceptions did you have of BDSM before you began that have been changed now?

I actually believed that people who were into BDSM were all somehow honest and caring.

Pooka


I think you would be a little surprised by how many people that really are in the BDSM lifestyle are supportive and caring. Mostly, the players, liars and cheaters are what I see online a lot more than in real life. The PEP group in Houston was full of very nice people. People that didn't care what they looked like, just that they were having fun and they were secure in their own environment.

I try to make BDSM as positive an experience as I can for as mant people I can. I fail sometimes, yes, but I am human. I don't just toy with people and their emotions, though. I also tend to be very harsh with those that do or try to.