Thanx both of you for advice. As far as our physical relationship is concerned, we did engage in some light play during the time we were together. We were in a physical vanilla relationship for the past year and a half, and I feel like I know her well enough and trust her that she would be willing to try new things with me.

Talking to her is def. a good idea, just that the language barrier and me not really being wired make it a bit difficult atm.

Still, I'm gonna take it slow, try to keep things updated on this forum as things develop.