Please be aware - no flaming is meant, in any way shape or form. I am a Pagan, have been for decades now, and very proud of it. But I have to say, the practical side of me has allllllll kinds of red flags going up here. All I have to say is that one has to be careful of rebound energy when practicing any kind of magic, not just sex magic...sex magic is very, very powerful stuff, very heady, bordering on dark magic that has some pretty serious consequences to it, and can be extremely dangerous with the kinds of power released when it's worked. Combining it with BDSM and the power exchange that is already inherent in the nature of what we do? I can't help but be worried about that. Maybe I'm just being a nervous Nelly here. Just please...be careful. Please, just remember the Rede: And that it harm none, do what you will. Granted, that's just my humble opinion...I just don't want to see anyone hurt, physically or spiritually...and, well, yeah. 'Nuff said.