Originally posted by jeyline
I'll be 18 in about 1 1/2 months, don't worry. I've been "persuing" adult sites since I was 15 though. My parents don't really care, not that they know how to use the computer to begin with.

Sad.

As for the age issue, myself and Jinn, the owner, will be discussing whether or not to let you continue posting here. Like I said before, legally, you're a minor. That could cause problems for this site.


I'm not exactly capable of taking care of myself, or at least, not fully. I'm a bit scatterbrained at times and often forget to eat or other stuff like that. Fortuantely my mom is a stay-at-home-mom and has taken care of me my entire life. To put it a little clearer, until I was 10 years old I still had to ask my mom if I could leave the room (at home) or if I could go to the bathroom. I still have to ask before I eat anything, leave the house, or talk on the phone. In other words, I'm taken care of.

Pathetic.


I've sort of realized this, considering the people that I've met online. I'm just not sure about how to go to a live event, or find one, or anything like that. It's not exactly something you can look up in the phone book. How do people go about finding and attending events?

Well, first you have to wait about a month and a half. Then you got to an adult toy/clothing/fetish store and pick up your local alternative interests paper. Almost every sommunity has one. If your community doesn't have one, then there will probably be fliers up announcing local BDSM/fetish/alternative lifestyle events. Call the number on the flier or go to the address and buy a ticket.

It helps to not only attend play parties, but munches as well. In fact, the munches and get to know you sessions are probably more important to go to than they play parties most times.


Well, at least it isn't to someone else. I don't really care all that much about what happens to me, so that isn't really a concern for me. I just sort of don't think about my health or my body a lot. It just is.

That's pretty disturbing. Maybe instead of looking for a dominant, you should consider looking for a therapist.


Not really a concern of mine either. I'm one of those people who has an unhealthy disregard for their own lives. I don't really care if I live or die to be quite honest with you. Life doesn't seem very real to me to begin with, it seems very plastic and unreal.
Again, forget about browsing adult sites and finding a relationship which will, more than likely, turn out to be unhealthy, and find a good therapist.

Good, smart dominants don't want broken goods.