I am sure it's different in many ways for all, but here is my experience with female ejaculation.
The first time it happened, I was by myself, playing. I thought I had tinkled. So for a few years after that, I'd tense up during orgasm, holding my muscles in tight so I wouldn't "wet the bed" as I thought I was doing. It really did bother me quite a bit. Then along came the magic of the internet. I found out that there is such a thing as female ejaculation. I was pretty damn happy, let me say. Nice to find out you aren't a bed-wetter!
So I started utilizing this new information. Initially, it was all from clitoral stimulation. I found out that if I just let go and pushed out with my muscles at the onset of orgasm, I would squirt. The amount depended on how hydrated I was. Then, one fantabulous day, I discovered my g-spot. Orgasms without clitoral stimulation?!? But YAY!! And I found out at that point that I would gush even more fluids if my g-spot was stimulated for a time before orgasm. A win-win for me, to be sure!
Since then, I have learned more about how all this works for me. I can't gush with a toy or cock filling my cunt. BUT, if I have a couple clitoral orgasms while filled, then when I have that next g-spot or clitoral Oh, I will gush like a geyser! My husband has the towels ready to cover in case it's a sky-high one. It can be a serious mess to clean up, but well worth the effort in my opinion. ~laughs~ I just heard the choruses of "well, duh!!" from around the Forums after making that last comment.
Hope that helps you out some, Rhabbi.![]()