I know it's not about a wanna-be, but this thread reminds me of a skit Steve Martin did back in the 80s when he was doing stand up. He said something about meeting some nice people back stage one night. They asked him if he was bi, and since he had taken Spanish back in high school he said yes. Great they said why don't you come to our house after the show, we're having some S&M people over. Great he says, spaniards and mexicans!

If you're a sub that thinks you can tell another sub their Master isn't a true Master because their Master doesn't do the same as yours, you may very will be a wanna-be.
If you're a Master that thinks you can tell another Master he's doing it all wrong because he's not "strict enough" you may very well be a wanna-be.
The list can go on and on can't it.
"I'm more submissive than you"
"My subbie walks on her knees when in my eye-sight, and she never looks me in the eye"
bla bla bla...