Thank you NatalieD.

I grew up in a world where a feminist was a lesbian with an opinion (hey, I was young and I knew no better!) Nothing more, nothing less... Then it got all complicated and feminists became straight women with opinions, then gay men with opinions about what is is to be a woman, then...

Well, in my opinion, feminists ought to be people who like people enough to respect females and males alike. Then we could just get rid of the word feminist and replace it with humanist... but that's probably too simple huh?