Not sure how old or how experienced you mean, and whether or not I count, but answering anyway.

I always feel very sorry for young and inexperienced Doms, there is an assumption that they know what they are doing, and all too often their lack of experience combined with enthusiasm results in them being labeled as wannabes. It takes more confidence than most people have to come out and declare, I would love to dominant someone, but I have never done it before and am not quite sure how to go about it. Therefore, I have chatted and occasionally played on line with a novice Dom, if I both like him as a person and feel that there is a true Dom waiting to come out. I have enjoyed those times, but freely admit to looking for someone with more maturity to build a relationship with.

One of the thrills of my online life has been someone I met elsewhere, who initially presented as one of the worse types of online Doms I know, but for some reason I chatted to him for a little while. That built into a lasting friendship, and I was able to mentor him through from what I later discovered was his first day in chat, through to him entering a sustainable 24/7 relationship.

cariad