Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
Only based on talking to Doms at parties my extremly simplified model of Domery is that a true Doms start out their career being/feeling really really strange about sex, and having trouble conveying this without scaring subs/women off.

Wannabes have the oposite problem. Their biggest problem is rampant normalness and general cluelessness about what turns a sub on. It's more a an identity/subcluture thing than a craving.
Two things:

Firstly, 'Domery' has entered my vocabulary (alongside kinkery and other funny words)

Secondly, (aside from the 'true doms' which you forgot to acknowledge is a TM sign) ... um, it's so true I can't help but laugh

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