How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle?

>>>A one-night stand turned GF, I threw her on a table the night we met and we went from there

What was its appeal to you?

>>>Release. Freedom. Exhiliration. NO-holds-barred fucking. I was fascinated about the Master's Mentality. What it took envision a person as property.

What misconceptions did you have of BDSM before you began that have been changed now?

>>>Basically I've learned that like most things, the most important thing is to continually revise your conceptions with new information.

What do you hope to learn/teach/pass on to others about BDSM?

>>>Right now I want to learn better subspace-navigation through pain and pleasure, orgasm-control, rope tech, and rudimentary training tech. I would love to pass on the physical skills, but that's far down the road. What I want most is to develop a greater understanding of the lifestyle mentality, its communication tech, psychology, and the metaphysics of "play."

Do you consider yourself a "lifestyler" or just an occasional player?

>>>Ha. I used to THINK I was a lifestyler, I just play when I can though.

What do you enjoy about being dominant/submissive?

>>>Control. The ability to manipulate one's emotions. Being worshipped.

What do you like about your dominant/submissive(s), if you have one (them)?

>>>I like how eager they are to see me. I've never liked chasing tail, and the subs who I'm involved with tell me I'm fairly good at what I do, and they enjoy being topped by me.


I wanna learn as much as I can, play as often as I can, and do it as well as I can. Its responsible and it feels good, baby. Peace