*licks tessa* i'm sooo glad i got to meet and play with you in the room last night!!! hopefully we'll do that again!

it also spurred me to finally read your thread,which i had been meaning to since i came back around.

when i first came to this community, i believe one of my first threads had to do with what to do about a vanilla husband? granted, i was only four years into the relationship at the ( one year into marriage) plus we didn't have any kids. but i was young and newly married and then i discovered this lifestyle.

it was agonizing to discover this side of me, which now in hindsight i realize has always been there, and be unable to express it. i cannot imagine how hard it was for you, to keep it supressed for so long. the very idea doesnt even register in my impatient impulsive little mind.

of course reading your thread just made me sooooooo happy because though it's a hard journey, it looks like it will be a wonderfully successful one. although i wish you would go into a bit more detail about certain things.... *wink, wink*

your also an extremely intelligent, open-minded, self-aware person. your stubborn but you admit to your stubborness. your impatient, lol but you admit to your impatience. ( oh what happened to that damn petition by the way??)

i honestly, and sincerely look forward to each and every post you make about you and your husbands growing D/s relationship. it gives me hope, that one day, maybe we share success stories.

oh and yeah... remember DETAILS... explicit, raunchy details...... erm... helps with the advice giving.... really it does.... *weg*