Hey there l<itten,

Crikey, that's a whole lot of questions you askthere! *smiles*

Ok..firstly, you haven't been in a Ds relationship very long, and it sounds to me like you just need to carry on as you are, along with your Master, taking it as it comes and exploring stuff together. In addition, it isn't so long ago that you lost your virginity, so all things considered, i'd say you were doing quite a lot, quite quickly! Your Master sounds like he'd be more than willing to take it at a steady pace, both sexually and in relation to Ds, so that's good. i also wouldn't worry too much about not pleasing him unless he states that you're not pleasing him.

In terms of the two pratical sexual issues you mentioned (anal and oral sex), i tracked down some good threads about these two things for you (the first one, for your purposes, starts at the second post):

Anal Sex

How to give the best blow job

Hope these are helpful to you, and have fun!

sl