I read this post and replies last night, but never had time to reply due to having to get some sleep

Thank you for bringing this subject up l<itten, it's something I've been thinking about for a while now. This thead, and the other two mentioned (thank you sl) have helped lots. I don't particularly want a lot of pain, mild pain I might be able to handle. I do, however, want to be able to offer all parts of me to my Dom, which include my ass. I've already spoken to him about it, and he said that if we did have anal, it would be entirely in my control. I'd say what happened, how fast, and if indeed to stop at any point. He understands it would be a huge move for me to do that, and is very willing to take it slowly.

I've already experimented slightly, by inserting a finger to almost the 2nd knuckle, and it was pain free. Sometime soon (when I can be alone) I want to try again and perhaps use two and see what happens. (it can be kinda hard to reach round there though, lol) I've found that if I push down while pushing my finger in, and keep pushing my finger when I stop with my body can allow me to go that little bit further, but I guess everyone is individual? (and if you understood that, then you're a better person that I, LOL)

Anyway, l<itten, sorry for hijacking this thread, I just wanted to reply to something that interested me and inspired me to.