Ok, a few details...for those of you who are as detail hungry as I am.

What I didn't add before, but since my husband has now read my previous post and believes this should be added in, was the little extra he included in the punishment, seeing how I thought it was so humorous. While I was there on my hands and knees, giggling about how I can misunderstand the most obvious of things, he decided to add a bit of humility into the mix. He felt it appropriate, due to my attitude and all. I do get to be candid in how it made me feel. Like that helps. I didn't want to tell this part of it at all. For you smartass subs out there, there is a penalty for such behavior.

(One note- during this, my son was upstairs thoroughly engaged in Blue's Clues, out of ear and eye shot. I think that's important to mention as this is an issue I would imagine all D/s couples with children have to deal with.)

Anyway, back to details.

As I said before, I had on a teeny tiny tank top. The way I was positioned, most everything under said top was open for viewing. He sat in his chair in front of where I was on the floor and said, "I want some bounce action happening there." Knowing he meant my boobs, but really unsure of how to make that occur given my position, I replied with, "well how am I supposed to make that happen?" He was quick to come back with, "that's for you to figure out."

Ok, now I'm a little embarrassed. Which was the goal, I imagine. Don't know for sure as I don't do the think-like-a-Dom thing. So I'm trying to figure it out, as he said I needed to. Let me just say that he was enjoying the heck out of watching me try to figure it out. I rocked back and forth on my hands and knees first. That got some movement going. His idea of " go faster" helped out some too. I didn't mind it so much as I knew I probably looked pretty cute down there, moving back and forth like I was fucking back on something behind me. I must have exhibited some of that "damn, I'm cute" attitude, because then he said, "I want more jiggle."

If you think about it, being on hands and knees doesn't give very many movement options as it relates to tits. There's back and forth (which I had already used), side to side, and in a very limited way, up and down. That's pretty much the idea that flew through my mind when trying to figure out how to add "more jiggle" into this now quite humiliating experience. (Please know that at this time, I am typing under duress...this shi...um, retelling is just too mortifying.)

Side to side offers "more jiggle" as does up and down. Up and down on hands and knees, however, is plain out awkward and not at all attractive. (Maybe that's why he looked so amused during that part of it.) By this stage of the punishment, I realized that the "oh goody, playtime!" mentality was way, way off base. I actually felt chastised, even though it remained light hearted and amusing, well, for him anyway. I really was entirely un-amused at this point, left to figure out the jiggle factor of boobs and everything.

He very astutely pointed out that the reason for punishment was to encourage a change in behavior. And all this time I thought he was slow on the uptaking in regards to the workings of a D/s relationship. I've apologized to him for that, but I'm also doing it here as a public show of my obvious wrong. He's actually got a better mindset for the day to day of D/s than I do. Since I get to be forthright in this public part of the punishment, I can say that I feel much more comfortable with the sexual aspects of it all. He's still working on that part. No, that wasn't said with any smugness at all. Really!

ceegee, you are spot on- this was training, happy and painful that it was. I'm just trying to wrap my mind around it all. It's so not as easy as I thought it would be. Hugs to you too.

minxy, I wish you had been there! I would have had some sympathy, at least. But knowing you as I do, you would have also agreed that it was necessary. You are just good like that.

moptop, he is getting good at keeping me off balance. A surprise, but such a welcome one. Oh, and I do hope these details satisfied.

I have to add that I don't think he thinks I've learned my lesson. He spent time yesterday in his workshop making a seriously wicked looking paddle. It is rather pretty though.

I've just been informed that Doms also don't appreciate paddles being termed "pretty". Something else new I've learned.

(Me thinks I'm gonna experience that new paddle soon.)