Hello, pyarrie.

Have you determined whether or not there is a physiological reason for you not orgasming? If not, you should talk to a doctor as soon as you can. If you know for sure that there is nothing physical that's keeping you from orgasming, then I say masturbate, masturbate and more of the same. Tell him what you're doing, but do it alone so there's nothing to pressure you. Then just discover what your mind and body need to find that release.

Note: Use lots of lubricant. Gets all good and slick that way. Makes things rub more easily.

Best of luck to you!

tessa