*nods in agreement with tessa* See your family physician as soon as possible to discuss this. One thing you need to consider is any type of medication you are taking. There are several that can/do interfere with one's sexual activity. Stressors such as work and personal issues can also cause distractions which may interfere. Only your doctor can give you the best answer to this question, so be as open and honest as possible with him, and good luck!