Quote Originally Posted by slavelucy
Yeah, see, it's at that point you should try to fight all your natural instincts to pull away (heh, i make that sound easy!) and push back onto him..push out, if you see what i mean...it will hurt for a second, but once you're past that, it should be fine, if he's gentle with you...and you'll only need to do it once, to convince yourself that it will work, if you see what i mean.

sl
lol yea, alot easier said than done. My Master also suggested I push back on him, I think maybe if we both decide this is something we want to continue trying to do that maybe I should mention him letting me have control during anal until if/and/or/when I get used to it. Which might be hard for me, I don't take control, I never have. I prefer to be Dominated than to Dominate.