Quote Originally Posted by l<itten
lol yea, alot easier said than done.
*grin* Absolutely...because every ounce of your natural instincts screams 'Pull away, you fool!'...but i promise, promise, promise, if you relax and push out, it will get better after a few strokes.


Quote Originally Posted by l<itten
Which might be hard for me, I don't take control, I never have. I prefer to be Dominated than to Dominate.
But..it's not dominating. Try to think of it as doing something that ultimately will lead to you be able to do something you want to do for him..in that respect, it's the ultimate submissive action.

(Just to be clear, if anal sex is something that you decide is a hard limit, then that's cool, i'm not saying you HAVE to do anal sex, if it's just not your cup of tea.)

sl