O/l can be wonderful, but I find that it takes an enormous amount of trust on both sides. Sometimes it's misplaced as well.

You establish rules, get to know eachother, and for me it's no question that I wollow the rules, and tell my partner if I mess up in any way. (of course, I'm never ever a brat or smartass, noooo, that would be the easy way to get into trouble).

When my o/l relationship blew up, I found myself thinking that this type of thing could never work online, because you can't look eachother in the eyes, and it's such an easy medium to create a persona.

Now I've spent some time reading threads, and I see many are involved in an o/l relationship. So I was compelled to try again, and I am.
While I want to submit, I find it hard to do so, and now I'm not even sure if I can anymore.
Nothing seems tangible, if that's the correct english I'm using.

How do you do it?

This thread seemed like the right place for this pointles ramble. Didn't feel like it warranted it's own thread