Quote Originally Posted by duktig flicka
I am definitely the brat, and in typical brat fashion, I am going to refuse to call it a bad thing. I love being a brat, and I love being told what a brat I am, and my dom certainly loves to give me a good punishment to put me in my place until the next time I start sassing.

EDIT: I'm speaking up here because I assumed the bump was to get discussion on these topics going again. After posting, it occurred to me that maybe they were meant to bring attention to old threads for the sake of reference, so extra discussion wasn't encouraged. Did I do the right thing?
duktig flicka - you are are welcome to contribute to any threads you feel you have something to say on.

In terms of the whole brat thing..whether or not it is really true submission, i think you raise a good point, that being that it's irrelevant which rule book one is following, i have always believed that D/s, good D/s, works best between two given people; it works for you, it works for your dom so by definition, it just IS good.

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