I have a friend who only just had her first orgasm in, we'll say 40-some years. She is Catholic and was also trained since chilhood that sex was for procreation, not enjoyment. The question I have is do you masturbate at all? If the one person you know (you) can't produce an orgasm, it's less likely anyone else ever will... once you can give yourself an orgasm, it would seem to me that the lucky guy you're with has a chance to help you achieve one too. Bottom line is that from a guy's point of view, its sad, but I hear many females missing out on that marvellous peak most or all of their lives. I wish you luck with the doctor visit!