Cetaphil is a wonderful cleanser you can use... Its for the face but is sooooo gentle that it would be safe for that area....

Remember to exfoliate well .... with a loofah.. and let the hair soften under warm water for a few minutes before shaving. Always use a new blade and some sort of cream or lather... I have found that " Venus" is the best blade to use...

Although Noxzema makes these mini razor.. jsut for that area.. and they are really good!

Remember to mositurize the skin as well.. but just the outter portions... don't put lotion or anything else within the folds of that area.... it could mess up your bodies naturtal PH.

From time to time I get an ingrown hair or something.... don't pick at it... it'll go away... if it really bothers you.. you can use tweezers or something like that to get the little pesky hair out from under the skin.. BUT ALWAYS use clean tools.. and wash well with an anti bacterial soap.

Hope this helps!