Um...TG answered that question, twice. i think what you are referring to is suspension as opposed to bondage..which more works on the principle of squeezing than pulling, alot of the time.Originally Posted by Candy
i think the vanity point was this;in the end, if you're having fun, fulfilling a part of yourself and being safe, is the odd tiny scar or millimetre of stretched skin really worth getting bent out of shape about? (no pun intended) i'm not suggesting you can't have fun without it, but in BDSM terms, perfection is possibly less of an issue in some respects.
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