Quote Originally Posted by slavelucy
Yes, i do.

Having encountered this particular problem from time to time, i have come to the conclusion that the antithesis of 'focusing' on submission helps sort out the wheat from the chaff in terms of my feelings towards submission and my ability to focus on it. By antithesis, i mean thinking about life without submission, life without giving up any degree of personal power, life without Ds....imagining the opposite is far more effective, at times, than forcing one's mind to focus ON it.

Just an idea, anyway.

sl
This thought may be a tool that could be used to train a new sub. Or at least a sub could use this to determine their sincerity in submission. A succinct thought. Thank you!