Quote Originally Posted by AndrewBlack
Just having a quick scoot through this thread and found the radio controlled belts apparently from House of Gord. I had a look there and couldn't see them, anybody know where else they can be got?
Andrew one is available from Neosteel. And for all things chastity related check out the fine site from Altairboy.

Chastity belts etc is a favorite of mine. Having worn one in my subby days has taught me that this seemingly primitive and barbaric looking devise is highly sadistic. For me the loss of sexual freedom and choice, at first, was a horrible experience. For the first few weeks I rebelled against it, testing its strength and my Domme's strength. But quickly I found that I was becoming more devoted to her, I listened more carefully to her needs than ever before and then reacted to them. Amazingly I found her doing the same thing with me. While I still resented, to some extent, her control of my sexuality I found the rewards far out weighed the price of lost masturbation and the occasional public humiliation. What it did for us was to cause us to focus on each other. I was reminded 24/7 by its presence just what our relationship was and my place in it. She, while not having the physical presence, was now constantly aware of the responsibility as a key holder. And with that the fact she was now more than ever responsible for our relationship and sex life. In short that small piece of metal and key brought us extremely close in our relationship, was the impetus for increased communication, honesty and trust. While at the same time enforced and displayed the roles we had chosen.

Later I have also been the key holder. This, while brining responsibility, brings with it an enormous sense of power and trust. It provides opportunities in a relationship that no other thing I have found yet.

For anyone who has an interest in adding this to their relationship it is a big step. But, as Jane reminds us, with todays modern products a very doable and rewarding adventure.