from what i have listened, watched and learnt, S/some view slavery as one who is submissive and signs over all freedoms, rights of choice and being should one be chosen, there are no safe words, just complete total power exchange, absolute trust and a unity of T/two working towards being O/one in completeness.
Would this be romantisizing BDSM? i think so yes in some form, T/they live together, T/they live the life 24/7 and are very commited within T/their lifestyle, yet so at peace, so really with this as an addition, i dont think there would be any harm in romanticising in a different form.
He keeps telling me i am a slave at heart, but i am not ready to accept this, simply a submissive with much to learn and always growing